Hi Seb, Great website !! thank you. I love it. I’m a 57yr old gay guy, who has both cock and anal orgasms, though I have never had one from being penetrated. Most guys seem to want to bang hard, and this doesn’t allow my own arousal to surge. I’ve always had loads of pre-cum and when I was younger it would soak the front of my jeans. A well-lubed cock and nipple play is very important, for my pleasure (olive oil or vaseline if I’m a bit dry). The wanking technique and fantasy can take me in either direction. Wanking, I can have full-body multiple orgasm, which I can prolong, for hours when I was younger, with the risk of tennis elbow though. For anal orgasm I have lighter touch (barely any usually) just on the head of my wet nob, rather than strokes, and fantasize about being penetrated, rather than penetrating. Light nipple play is crucial here too. With very slight flexing of arse and prostate muscles, after a while it lets rip. Fortunately, I live in the country, for when it comes, I can ROAR and also have multiple convulsions. (At one time, I stopped coming with guys, cause I felt I was being viewed as a freak). I am able to have anal orgasm, even if I’ve had a lot of sex and cant get a full erection. Joy, oh Joy !! Best wishes, – John
My first time was after receiving anal sex numerous times from men, I finally was with a guy who knew what to do, he had me on my hands and knees, and penetrated me from the rear, constantly probing, bumping, and sliding against my prostate, finally something hit me, and I knew I was about to experience a very intense orgasm. I wasn’t even touching myself, I melted down against the mattress, and my lover continued to pump in and out of me, I roared in surrender, and it just happened very naturally, with him loosing his load during my orgasm. It is the most beautiful feeling a receiver male can experience, probably much like a women orgasming from penetration. Just wonderful! – Frank
I so yearn for my 1st entry in me slow and deep.
Have using a larg3r 8 to 9″ dildo on myself forever. I want a real thick nice in me!!!
Seb, I’d love to see a post on sexual “performance” in general. What constitutes “good sex” among men? All the possibilities and nuances. I think the focus is too concentrated on the obvious: anal penetration, fellatio, masturbation, starring large, hard cocks and relaxed, hairy asses. It is true that you’ve had wonderful posts on kissing and touching. But I’d love to see everything brought together in one posting, so you give us a sense of the fluid nature of love making, that takes into account what good lovers do when cocks wilt, holes refuse to relax, etc. What happens next for couples who know how to have good sex? How do skilled lovers always manage to make fantastic love?
There’s a scene in “God’s own Country” that could be a starting point.