One of my masturbation buddies regularly masturbated with another guy for decades, and then they both became widowers within a year […]
The HaPenis Man
We met years ago. For a long time we were just friends: we talked, both of us were just interested in […]
The Study of Theology
Those who don’t feel this Love pulling them like a river, those who don’t drink dawn like a cup of spring […]
A Dad Bod
Within many male social circles—especially gay and bisexual spaces—fitness standards can feel intense and hyper-curated. A dad bod breaks that dynamic; […]
Stand By Your Man
If we learn to nurture our inner man we have conquered half our battle with our own masculinity. The other half […]
Why Men Smile
When a man reaches climax and ejaculates, he usually lets out a sigh of relief and a smile of satisfaction simultaneously. […]
I Saw You Dancing
I saw you dancing last night in the field of your house, all alone. I felt your heart longing for the […]
15,000 Men A Day
Dear Gentle Men, Over the past year, we’ve seen an amazing surge in visitors, around 15,000 unique men exploring the site […]
The Art of Cruising
I prefer cruising. I like walking into a public space and noticing too many men hanging about with a nervous, expectant […]
Slow Wanking
Jerking off with your hand flying up and down is fucking ridiculous. I feel my cock and balls with slow, horny […]
The Flute Player
The fluteplayer puts breath into a flute, and who makes the music? Not the flute. The Fluteplayer! In Rumi’s poetry, the […]
Whisper “More”
I want to see you. Know your voice. Recognize you when you first come ’round the corner. Sense your scent when […]
Distraction Exquisite
HaPenis is a device to “calculate” the astronomy of the spirit. Look through that astrolabe and become oceanic. Why this distracted […]
Edge 2 Anal Orgasm
How to Achieve the Super O Male Anal Orgasm with the LOVENSE Edge 2 Prostate Massager. The key to experiencing an […]
Golden Showers
In his cult classic Urban Aboriginals, kink historian and leather philosopher Geoff Mains went deep into the rituals of gay male […]
Taoist Wanking
Taoism asks for wanking without preconceived ideas. It is an ancient Chinese philosophy that is about wanking that lets you better […]
Sacred Intimacy
Much has been written on the topic of being married (to a woman) and having a “relationship” with a man at […]
Be God To Yourself
Self-Love is a Superpower. Be god to yourself. When you love yourself without hesitation, you become the temple, the priest, and […]
Felatio Artiste
In the realm of cocksucking artistry, few command as much admiration as that of CARMELIDE, the esteemed French fellatio artist. For […]
Sodomy & Philosophy
I shall fight openly for that which no living Englishman dare defend, even in secret — sodomy! At school I was […]