According to a study involving 200 men in Turkey, Stocky Blokes Fuck 4 Times Longer. The gorgeous big stocky bellied men(bears) can last an amazing five minutes longer during sex than slim men. For the study, the team from Erciyes University in Kayseri, Turkey, looked at the correlation between body mass index (BMI) and male sexual performance. On an average, men with a higher BMI lasted an average of 7.3 minutes in bed. The slimmer of the group barely lasted two minutes and were more likely to suffer from premature ejaculation. “So let us say a guy has sex 100 times annually. If he has a belly, he is going to spend approximately eight hours — an entire work day — more per year in sex with his lover than if he has a six-pack. That is a substantial amount of time,” the report added. Source
These lines from the poem by W.H. Auden about his chance, afternoon dalliance with a young man (see the HaPenis post “Platonic Blow”) reinforce the point I am making.
“The lair of hair was fair, the grove of a young man,
A tangle of curls and whorls, luxuriant but couth.
Except for a spur of golden hairs that fan
To the neat navel, the rest of the belly was smooth.
Well hung, slung from the fork of the muscular legs,
The firm vase of his sperm, like a bulging pear,
Cradling its handsome glands, two herculean eggs,
Swung as he came towards me, shameless, bare.
We aligned mouths. We entwined. All act was clutch,
All fact contact, the attack and the interlock
Of tongues, the charms of arms. I shook at the touch
Of his fresh flesh, I rocked at the shock of his cock.
Straddling my legs a little I inserted his divine
Person between and closed on it tight as I could.
The upright warmth of his belly lay all along mine.
Nude, glued together for a minute, we stood.
I stroked the lobes of his ears, the back of his head
And the broad shoulders. I took bold hold of the compact
Globes of his bottom. We tottered. He fell on the bed.
Lips parted, eyes closed, he lay there, ripe for the act.”
PS, and if you want to see a pretty good example of two large guys making love in the way cummings extolls, take a look at this video: https://xhamster.com/videos/shay-michaels-and-mike-dozer-tmp-p1-13595301
I love looking at HaPenis’s priceless display of stocky blokes and I have no doubt that these hefty, hairy bulls will still be fucking even after the cows come home.
But I have a different view of what makes for good sex, and it is wonderfully expressed by one of my favourite American poets, whose name somewhat contradicts what I think he thinks good sex is all about: ee cummings. Here is his poem, which is as pertinent to lovemaking between two men as it is to that between cummings and the female lover he addresses here:
i like my body when it is with your
i like my body when it is with your
body. It is so quite new a thing.
Muscles better and nerves more.
i like your body. i like what it does,
i like its hows. i like to feel the spine
of your body and its bones, and the trembling
-firm-smooth ness and which i will
again and again and again
kiss, i like kissing this and that of you,
i like, slowly stroking the, shocking fuzz
of your electric fur, and what-is-it comes
over parting flesh… And eyes big love-crumbs,
and possibly i like the thrill
of under me you so quite new