STR-8 OF MIND

I’ve heard it over a 1,000 times. it’s almost a shame you don’t know it, but you curious straight or bi guys are far more numerous than you’d think, and so is that fantasy […]

Men & Masculinities

According to a new study out of Durham University on the changing social habits of heterosexual males. Published in the journal of Men and Masculinities in March, the study revealed that 98 percent of […]

Sexual Identity?

“Society is so hypocritical and limiting. The fact that one calls oneself “straight” or whatever doesn’t reveal anything about one’s true fantasies or desires. It’s not that people can truly know every aspect of […]

Alpha type in public?

Hey man, You have a very stiff appearance. Rigid socially. Alpha type in public. You lead a very straight life. Dominant man in the outside but want to secretly let a clean tall fit […]

50% of Young Brits Not Heterosexual

According to A British Government Survey 50% of Young Brits are ‘not exclusively heterosexual. Half of young Brits say they are ‘not exclusively heterosexual’ with a quarter of all UK adults saying they are gay […]

Truthful Observation

“He was the kind of young man whose handsome face has brought him plenty of success in the past and is now ever-ready for a new encounter, a fresh-experience, always eager to set off […]

21% Str8 Men Wank 2 Gay Porn

A study from the Archives of Sexual Behaviour spoke with 821 guys about what they wank off to. No surprising that 98.3% of gay men admitted to watching gay porn in the last month, […]

A more patient and creative orgasm

Hi Seb, Woke up this morning thinking about you and realized it was time to sit down and share a few thoughts with you. I’ve never met you but have visited your site a […]

How do I know if I’m gay

I am 21 years old and I am what you might call, bi curious. I have only admitted that I was questioning my own sexuality to one person, and it was someone I didn’t know. […]

Bud Light

One time when your best mate is over, say a night, have a beer or two, and watch some porn. You could say your trying to decide what would be good for the bedroom […]

Anal Straight Man

Hello Seb, Thanks for your newsletter. Was good to hear from you and find out a bit about what you’ve been up to, so long after I came down to visit. See, I came […]

Am I gay or experiencing Ascension

I admire that you have the balls to discuss this, that’s a very sacred and masculine thing to be able to do. In relation to that “female energy” running through your body, I would […]

fucking this straight guy

Hello Mr Cox, I’m a gay man and I’ve been fucking this straight guy for about a year. He doesn’t want to kiss, hug or get emotional. He just likes his ass played with….and […]

(maybe Bi)

Watching gay porn is something I have grown into over time. Initially it was just pics. Then I looked at gifs of men pulling their cocks out. Now I began looking at videos, especially […]

str8 or gay ?

I distinguish between sexual orientation, romantic orientation, and platonic orientation because many straight guys, for example, have gay sex on the side.  They often say, “It’s only sex.”  To me, they are heteroromantic straight […]

heterosexual constraints

Hi Seb. I’m very curious about my first male massage. Having read your first time section I find myself feeling incredibly aroused. The thought of your fat cock brushing against my hand as you […]

Straight Man’s Multi Cocksucking Fantasy

I’m only temporarily curious every now and then, about once every couple of months for one night, but as a straight guy i have many sexual fantasies that include men, and sometime i dream […]

persuaded straight guys

Twice I’ve persuaded straight guys to let me blow them. In both cases we were watching straight porn, hoisting a few brews and were both horny. I’d ask if they had ever been sucked […]